The Bespoke Humanist

Thoughtfully written. Beautifully delivered. Completely about you.

Non religious ceremonies created around your story.

What is a Humanist Wedding?

Humanist ceremony

Simply put: It’s the wedding you actually want, not the one you feel you should have.

A Humanist ceremony is a non religious, completely bespoke celebration that puts your unique love story right at the heart of the day. There are no templates and no "must do" scripts.

Whether you want to exchange vows on a mountaintop, include a traditional handfasting, or have your dog as the ring bearer, I will make it happen.

It’s fun, personal, and it’s entirely about you as a couple.

My dream is simple: to give others the ceremony my wife and I had. One filled with love, laughter, meaning, and memories that last forever.

I’m fully committed to every couple I work with, and I’ll go above and beyond to make sure your day feels effortless, personal, and unmistakably you.

About me

I'm Anthony. a father of two boys. I am a tv binge watcher, particularly Fr. Ted and Dexter, a Podcast enthusiast and lifelong wrestling fan.

After having my own humanist wedding I decided to trade PowerPoints for promises and presentations for pronouncements.

I don't do copy and paste scripts; instead, I take the time to get to know you, learn your inside jokes, and understand what makes your relationship unique.

I’m a Wedding Celebrant accredited by Humanists UK.

As a bespoke Humanist celebrant, my goal is to ensure your ceremony is a perfect reflection of your personalities. Because there is no set script or rigid template, I build the ceremony order entirely around your wishes.

We’ll shape the tone, the moments, and the words that matter so your ceremony feels effortless on the day, and unforgettable long after.

Anthony

Services

CROÍA

£620

  • Couples questionnaire
  • Personal consultation
  • One symbolic gesture
  • Rehearsal
  • One reading
  • Wedding coordination
  • Legal documentation support

AMOUR

£710

Everything in CROÍA

  • Two symbolic gestures
  • Two readings
  • Reading material provided
  • Printed ceremony script

What Now?

Get in touch

Reach out to Anthony to check availability and start the conversation. No pressure just a friendly chat.

The vibe check

We’ll set up an online meeting or a physical one. Hot drink, cold drink, whatever suits you. Anthony will meet you and your loved one to iron out the details of your big day and answer any questions yous have.

Say we DO!

If you leave the meeting with me and think “this is the energy we need!” then drop him a message. Once that’s sorted, you’re in the diary.

Celebrating All Love

Humanism is all about celebrating the things that unite us and nothing unites us quite like love. At Bespoke Humanist we celebrate all love

From the moment we have our Vibe Check to the moment you say "I do," you can guarantee a warm, supportive, and fun bespoke ceremony.

Your wedding should be an unapologetic celebration of exactly who you are, and it would be my absolute privilege to help you tell your unique story.

Let's Plan Something Unforgettable

If you’re ready to chat, check availability, or just ask a few questions you’re very welcome.

The Vibe Quiz

Answer the questions below and see if we're the perfect celebrant match.

1. Do you want a ceremony that feels personal rather than scripted?

2. Do you like the idea of laughter being part of your ceremony?

3. Do you want your story told in a way that reflects who you really are?

4. Are you open to unique touches like handfasting or symbolic moments?

5. Do you want your guests to feel involved and emotionally connected?

6. Would you enjoy working with a celebrant who gets to know you first?

7. Do you prefer relaxed and natural over formal and traditional?

8. Do you want your ceremony remembered as one of the highlights of the day?


Location

I proudly conduct ceremonies across Northern Ireland.

Get In Touch

Telephone: 07533 178188

Email: bespokehumanist@gmail.com

humanists.uk/celebrants/anthony-sergeant/
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